| Though this may sound like a self-defeating exercise, | | | | shared amongst people who know each other |
| most people agree that the No Contact formula | | | | intimately. Therefore the No Contact formula has to |
| actually helps in getting your ex back faster than any | | | | be deployed cautiously while getting your ex back so |
| other way. The reason why it sounds contradictory | | | | that it still remains a win-win situation when you do |
| is on the one hand you want to be with your ex as | | | | get back each other.o Like every strategy is bound |
| soon as possible, on the other you are doing the | | | | by time and other limitations, your No Contact |
| disappearance act and almost running away from the | | | | strategy is also bound by time and need factors. For |
| person you want to be with! | | | | how long do you stick to your 'No Contact' strategy |
| However, getting your ex back is not about doing | | | | is the moot point here. It would be disastrous if you |
| the vanishing trick or follow the 'No Contact' formula | | | | remain deaf and blind to repeated attempts from |
| blindly. You got to read between the lines and devise | | | | your ex to contact you. There is nothing more |
| your own strategies in getting your ex back. There | | | | frustrating for your ex when he or she fails to trigger |
| are exceptions to the rule, which can make or break | | | | any reaction from you. If you are trying getting your |
| the situation. This is because any excess in keeping | | | | ex back, you need to play this No Contact card |
| Contact or No Contact can ruin your chances of | | | | carefully. The time gap during which you remain |
| getting your ex back. How do you strike a fine | | | | untraceable, would entirely depend on the strength |
| balance while getting your ex back, between two | | | | of you love for each other. If the feeling of |
| strategies: 'Contact vs. No Contact'? Here are some | | | | attraction is mutual and you are confident that your |
| guidelines to help you with your plan of action:o | | | | ex is pining for you as much as you are, you have to |
| Ultimately you are the best judge of the situation. | | | | return his or her calls and other attempts to contact |
| You might read and hear experts commenting | | | | you. However, when you do establish contact, you |
| repeatedly that the No Contact rule is universally | | | | do not have to go overboard with your emotions. Be |
| applicable - but it may not be so in your case. | | | | friendly, cordial, loving and forgiving when you meet |
| Establishing communication at the earliest, could be | | | | up your ex after this long gap. While you are nearly |
| the only way getting your ex back, before things | | | | half way through getting your ex back, be careful |
| turn for the worse. This is entirely your call.o The | | | | not to rake up the past, or start to analyze what |
| duration of your relationship makes a lot of | | | | went wrong etc. Let the events take its own |
| difference on the strategy you should take after the | | | | course, while you remain approachable and ready to |
| break up. If both of you have shared a relationship | | | | get into the relationship once again. |
| long enough for both the families to get involved, | | | | As you can see from the above, picking up the No |
| you simply cannot just remain invisible for too long | | | | Contact strategy and following it blindly may result in |
| when your ex leaves. People do come to know | | | | failure in getting your ex back. Follow your instincts, |
| about family news and events, be it good or bad. | | | | go by the history of the relationship, assess the |
| Your ex would feel horrible if there is a death in his | | | | intrinsic nature of your ex, and then play your cards |
| or her family and you did not even bother to call or | | | | accordingly. |
| show up. Similarly, good news also needs to be | | | | |