| 16 useful tips for maintaining a healthy spouse | | | | [9] Don't live in suspicion. Don't exaggerate a negative |
| relationship | | | | word or a meaningless action. Don't push things over |
| [1] Live the law of love. Refrain from saying unkind or | | | | the wall. Be patient to achieve peace and resolutions. |
| negative things... It is most often when a partner | | | | [10] Be presentable, looking clean and robust. no |
| harbours hate and revenge deep inside their heart for | | | | husband wants to see a dirty, tired, and worried face |
| a certain period of time that widens the gap of | | | | after a hard day's work. Keep oneself healthy in |
| misunderstanding. I do feel that sometimes angry or | | | | body, mind, emotion and spirit. Be a winner, not a |
| unkind words are spoken when someone is angry or | | | | whiner. |
| provoked. I presume that these wrong remarks are | | | | [11] A spouse should portray certain roles appropriate |
| said without a true intention. Angered phrases never | | | | to spice up their love-life. Learn to lure, tempt your |
| make any sense! Nobody dares say that he or she | | | | spouse that will keep their love afire with desires and |
| can remain calm when provoked. To remain | | | | needs. Sometimes can be posing as lovers, girl |
| unprovoked is really a skill that all of us have to learn. | | | | boyfriends, partners, enchantress, flirting with each |
| [2] Assume the best of each one another.... No | | | | other and evoking another romance, passion too |
| comparison please. This is one of the 'killer' that | | | | magical to believe or too hot to handle! There is |
| injects poisonous venom into an immature partner | | | | nothing wrong in the awakening of such passion |
| and will be killed' by jealousy. So, it is advisable not to | | | | among spouses!. |
| evoke old pains and wounds by reminding each other | | | | [12] Be open-minded to accept new ideas. Both |
| of negatives. Learn to assume the best of each | | | | partners have to come to an agreement in taking up |
| other... | | | | roles as wise parents, educating them as should be. |
| [3] Love lives by giving and forgiving, self lives by | | | | Practise give and take, stand and sit, share and reap.... |
| getting and forgetting... Giving and forgiving..... giving is | | | | We should set good examples for children to follow, |
| comparatively easier that forgiving one's faults or | | | | monkey see, monkey do...Bearing in mind that |
| sins. But true love means forgiving and forgetting. Be | | | | parents are the head of the family, so caution must |
| erased of wounds and stale tales... afterall, all of us | | | | be taken on the language we speak.....never |
| learn through mistakes. Provided one is working hard | | | | underestimate the importance of proper and right |
| towards an improvement, provided one is genuine | | | | influences,...the hands that rock the cradle rules the |
| enough, we should learn to forgive and forget. | | | | world.... |
| [4] Speak softly and do things quietly this is a virtue, | | | | [13] Solve disputes or disagreements away from the |
| a virtue for all ladies and mothers. Too many a times | | | | kids. Give it a specific date for resolutions. |
| they that at one time were lovers, but after | | | | [14] Be just, but never demanding true justice. No |
| becoming mothers have changed from a meek kitten | | | | emotions can be balanced on justice. You love me, |
| to an aggressive tigress! We do understand the | | | | so I love you... I love you, so you must love me! |
| emotional changes that takes place to these women, | | | | haha.... Can it be measured as fair and square? The 3 |
| of their untold sufferings, suppressed hurts and roles | | | | stages of love kindled emotions portrayed at |
| expected of them, that these women are also | | | | different stages are not easily achieved, it is a |
| stressed. Shouting and screaming are sometimes their | | | | journey, not a destination. It works hand in hand with |
| only ways to release their stress...but think twice! | | | | patience and mutual understanding. From lovers to |
| Negative effects would be doubled, seen or unseen. | | | | parents, from parents to grandparents living to old |
| One can imagine the negative impact it would make | | | | age as companions for life. Don't be misled by some |
| to their youngs, their parents-in-laws and their | | | | romance stories and films where the heroes and |
| husbands. | | | | heroines loved dramatically and lived on beds of |
| [5] Be attentive to minor changes or needs Women | | | | roses. |
| are actually born to be more sensitive to changes or | | | | [15] Be contented with what we have at hand. One |
| needs of the family. Maximize your talents and make | | | | bird in our hand is much better that many birds in the |
| sure that you can shoot down the problems before | | | | bushes. Don't be tempted by what looked better or |
| it really started to create any disturbances. | | | | seemed delicious, but stand firm and not swayed by |
| [6] Learn to mix with fun and jokes when partaking | | | | temptations of flesh. 'A forbidden night with his lover |
| in the routine work. A joyous and humorous wife or | | | | costed him his whole life imprisonment and death was |
| mother will be very much treasured in a home. Be | | | | what he got eventually!!' Samson regretted. Everyone |
| smiling always, a sweet smile adorns the face means | | | | knows this bible story. |
| so much more than any lipsticks or flowers. | | | | [16] Go for holidays... arrange some time for each |
| [7] Master the skill to cook well, feed the husband, | | | | other only, to renew one's relationship. Though not |
| kids and parent-in-laws. A hungry man is always an | | | | afire, but into the mode of deeper cherishing of one |
| angry man! Heard of this? Try to put in special skills | | | | another. Love does undergo different stages. |
| to add smiles to their faces when serving lunch or | | | | Hopefully into a mature state where the love for |
| dinner. Always give them pleasant surprises once in a | | | | each other matters more than the need to be |
| while. Cook nutritious, delicious healthy food for the | | | | together. |
| family. Be health-conscious and be budget-wise. One | | | | Some says that the most perfect match is a deaf |
| shouldnt be a spendthrift too. Think of the one who | | | | husband with a blind wife. But we won't want to be |
| sweats to make ends meet. | | | | deaf and blind. We want to be dear and beautiful! We |
| [8] Be understanding and be a good listener in times | | | | are loving couples to last. Genuine love will be |
| of sharing. Learn how to massage away each other's | | | | satisfying and blossoming. BEST of all is that all of us |
| tiredness. Learn how to dis-stress each other. Bring in | | | | will be moving towards becoming a healthier and |
| fun, even as parents. | | | | happier LOVER! |