How Do Successful People Defend Their Dreams?

Sometimes I really wish I could become deaf andreceiving it. Take what can really improve your
blind to all the naysayers and negative people whoprogress and help you along your journey. But never
seem to want to sabotage my dreams and stand inpay attention to negative people who are NOT
the way of my goals. Don't you?successful and are NOT living the worthy life you aim
The people who surround you, even the closestfor.
ones, can often be the hardest obstacle toTake advice from people who are already successful,
overcome on your way to fulfilling your desires andknow how to overcome challenges, and can guide
living the life of your dreams.you with their experience and knowledge. That is the
Why? Because people who aspire to massivekind of advice that you need to pay attention to.
success are often seen as a threat to the averageWhy on earth should you listen to someone who is
person, and those average people may unconsciouslyliving a mediocre life with no meaning or purpose?
- or consciously - try to pull those ambitious peopleA phrase I read in Paulo Coelho's "The Witch of
down to their level so that they are not left behindPortobello" really sums up the point: "You either carry
to suffer a mediocre life alone.your mission forward or you defend yourself. You're
How many times have you been criticized oraware, I know, that what you're doing is more
subjected to rejection or ridicule? What did you do inimportant than how you're seen by other people. Do
those situations?you agree?"
If your normal reaction is to stop what you are doingWhat you're doing is more important than how you're
- to halt your own progress - in order to focus onseen by other people. So carry on with your mission,
defending yourself or trying to prove your point,keep moving forward, and let your legacy speak for
then STOP.itself.
That is a waste of your time and effort. Life is tooSuccessful people know that their mission is greater
short and too valuable to throw it away on suchand more important than other people's opinions. So
nonsense. One thing you can be sure about is thatnever let the naysayers pull you down, and never kill
you will never please everyone - no one can, so whyyour dreams to please other people.
bother trying?When it comes to your mission and your dream, it's a
You have a dream and a unique mission on this earthgood practice to become deaf and blind to negative
that only you can fulfill. Discover what it is and give itforces, and open your mind to the valuable advice of
all you've got. Give it your time, energy, and focus.successful people who have been where you are and
Believe in it and move forward. How people see youknow the art of success.
is irrelevant and has nothing to do with you or yourKeep moving forward and craft your legacy, and
dream of success.someday the impact of your mission will leave all
I am not saying that you shouldn't listen to goodthose who stood against you absolutely speechless.
advice, of course. Just be mindful of what kind ofAttacking - not defending - is the best way to WIN
advice you're receiving and from whom you'rethe game of life.